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Sex Preparations before wedding night

The first intercourse experience between newly wed couples can have long-lasting repercussions in their life.  In order to avoid negative consequences it is necessary that careful and serious preparations be undertaken, physically first and mentally second, before any wedding.  Most of the wrecked marriages could be pointed out to this fatal night and its lasting sequel.

Millions of couples get wed every day.  The vast majority never experienced intercourse, at least one party in the union.  It might be a surprise to you to learn that most of the couples have not met before the wedding. At best, they have seen an edited picture of the member supposed to live with, for the rest of their life.

Most of the couples are naive in the matter of intercourse.

If only one member in the couple is a stranger to physical sexual activities then, the other member will be entirely helpless in making the “first night” a satisfactory experience, unless he/she is a top “expert” and managed this feat several times before with other naive partners.

If one of the partner is a practised element, the experience will still be unsatisfactory though the damage will be of lesser long-term consequences.  The semi-practiced partner will have the advantage of more self-confidence compared to the totally ignorant partner.  Only practice makes perfect, and this idiom applies essentially to sexual intercourse.

Let us be lucid.  Most of the younger couples are practically physically virgin, even if they read precise accounts of the intercourse process and the technical modus-operandi.

We need to differentiate between the circumcised male and the one with an “intact penis“.

Male with intact penis must necessarily practice the retraction of the excess flesh and the recovering of the sensible head several times a day, days before the wedding night.  If the female partner is not aware of this “affliction” and does not lead her man by holding the penis and inserting it properly, without undue rubbing on pubis hair, then the intercourse will be a total failure and generate pains and unfounded fright for many days.  Nothing comes normally without previous preparations.

Watching pornographic videos exacerbates the early love-making attempts:  the videos seem real “in the flesh” and in action, but they are the farthest from reality and very misleading.

Are there serious educational videos on intercourse for the newly wed?   It would be fantastic if pre-consultation of “how to doing intercourse” be as legal as checking blood type and physical well-being.

Males could have it easier than females since they can hire experienced women to initiate them for in-situ wrapping up experience.

Many couples love the companionship.  The sexual part, and principally the intercourse phase, is the least interesting exercise in their mind, at least for one member of the couple.  It is wise that one in the couple brings up the truth that the sexual zeal is in second or third order, a rare occurrence:  the wrong interpretation is invariably a bad one, and of the most dangerous kind.

For example, am I that disgusting? Am I ugly?  Do I smell terrible? What’s wrong with me?

Well, you got wed and now you are wondering “what should I do next to make this courageous decision a success story?

First principle, and maybe the only one of value for sexual intercourse, is that male is the passive part. The woman should be active and the guiding partner.  Many males wait years before they comprehend that a successful, rewarding, and pleasuring intercourse is to sit back and let the woman do the job right.  Many women know that they are the one getting the most pleasure of that exercise, but they postpone indefinitely getting the courage to teaching their husband the proper course of taking.

Before you resume the rest of this post, I suggest to the brides to imagine the kinds of story they should undertake as they got the principle down.  Now that you have your own story of the proper way to enticing your man to perform intercourse in a very relaxed manner, you may continue reading.

I can figure that most women think that a sexy attire is the first in the list of “must do”.  This line of thinking comes with years of training and ruining the family treasury for clothing.  Sexy wear is an excellent idea but it is mainly a prompt.  The groom and the bride have acquired particular idiosyncracies as to the varieties of sexy cloth.

Once the man comprehends what garment is meant “tonight, there is intercourse!” then the way is clear.  The man knows the objective of the evening, he feels relaxed, and can think of ways to be romantic.  The main hurdle is crossed once the prompt is clearly defined.

Next, the olfaction sense is King in the limbic system. Thus, both parties have to get clean and smelling fresh.  A joint bath is excellent; you rub one another body parts, get relaxed, laugh, and play like kids.  By the by, both parties learn the nice smells that they jointly love; the kind of soaps, the perfume… Once this phase is nailed down, things can progress smoothly.

While wearing the sexy gown and then taking a joint bath or shower, make sure the background music is devoid of any lyrics: You don’t want to clutter your thinking brain; focus on what excite the limbic system.

The sense of touch has a direct route to the limbic system, but it has lost its power for men.  Women are more endowed with the pleasure of touch:  they kept this sense alive from practicing it since childhood.  Men don’t get excited by touch; it is mainly to enhancing his mental imagination.

The only “touchy” part in a male is the closest regions of his anus.  I get generous and add the genital parts, but this is a manner of increasing male’s ego.  I am convinced that when a female touch the genital parts of a man then, it is the imaginative section that is excited; the man think: “Wow, she wants it!” and that is enough for assuring an erection.

Man has to touch his partner everywhere and seriously learn the most efficient exciting parts in his partner:  He does not want to bore his partner with lousy time-waster activities when the partner is ready to enjoy.

I suggest to the women to use boldly the largest skin areas in the hands, feet, and thighs; nail and finger touching is to be avoided: man is different from woman in the touch section of the limbic system.  The sense of touch is basically atrophied in man and it is fundamentally used to exciting the imaginative sections in the brain.

Good luck in your journey of learning the body of your partner:  It might be the initial phase in appreciating companionship and privacy.

In 2008 and 2009, the FEd played the role of world central bank and lent to foreign multinationals and financial institutions. 

First, the US central bank encouraged the speculative financial funds and institutions to buying credit card debts, student financial aids, and car credit debts by extending up to 95% of the necessary funds at very low-interest rates of between 1 to 2%.  This mechanism was very profitable to speculative funds since they generated up to 50% profit.  Two-third of the $71 billion in Treasury Bills loans have been reimbursed in this short lapse of time.  Questions: “Who paid up for these profits? Are credit card high interest rates still applicable?  With whose money?”

Second, the independent Senator of Vermont, Bernie Sanders, wrote the amendment to the Dodd-Frank law, which forced the US central bank to disclose all the financial short-term loans extended to foreign banks in Treasury Bills.  A tentative account revealed that the Swiss bank UBS received 37 billion in October 2008, the British Barclay was infused with 10 billion (Barclay had purchased many branches of the failed Lehman Brothers), the Belgium Dexia 23 billion, the German Commerzbank 13 billion, the French BNP Paribas, Societe generale, and Natixis many billions.

In addition to banks, the FED lent to multinational manufacturers such as Toyota, General Electric, Caterpillar, Harley-Davidson, Verizon, and even McDonald:  It appears that all these companies have their own financial speculative institutions.

So far, 21,000 transactions covering 3,300 billion have been revealed:  The in-depth accounting is resuming its job.

How human parts are disposed of in hospitals?

Thousands of hospitals perform surgeries and remove internal organs, cut arms and legs, extrude placenta, amniotic membrane, fetuses, fat, skin from esthetic surgery…  Do all these body parts are treated in the same manner?  Can fetuses be considered refuse if unclaimed?

In Germany, a fetus less than a pound is thrown in the medical waste bin if unclaimed, otherwise, the hospital bury it.

When a patient requests, before surgery, his body part, the surgeon has to deliver the good, unless the part is infected.  The code 180102 for disposing of body parts states that “Anatomical refuse of human organs, including blood bags, must be treated separately from household garbage.  They must be expedited in special hermetic containers to authorized particular incinerators and burned at 1,100 degree celsius.  The ash must be placed in special containers and transported to secure locations (usually, in disaffected mines)”

Remondis Medison is one of Germany’s specialized company for collecting the medical bins and performing the requested procedures and destruction processes.  Hospitals dispose of 30 or 60 litres of such hermetic waste bins and the company pick up the filled bins every couple of days.

The main problem is that the procedure is expensive:  a ton costs between $1,500 to 3000 for special treatment in Germany.

Before 1970 and the spread of AIDS, female amniotic membrane and placenta were used in cosmetic cremes.  Many donated organs are transplanted but human body parts waste amounts to millions of tons per day.

It appears that many patients request their removed body parts in order to bury them in their gardens or in the cemtery.

It turned out that human pharmacopeia is biased toward male people; many medicines were removed from the market for their counter-effects on women. Why?

All mice and rats used in labs are males? And why?

Experimenting with female rats and mice generate big problems:  The ovarian cycle is of only 4 days and vaginal tampons are to be used and hormone fluctuation is a difficult variable to control.

Thus, a researcher has to use four times more female rats than males for the same kind of experimental design.

It turned out that human pharmacopeia is biased toward male people; many medicines were removed from the market for their counter-effects on women.




December 2010

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