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Archive for June 5th, 2013

Every day is an investment

Path you’d like to walk

You’re not lucky to have this job, they’re lucky to have you.

For how long are you willing to be trampled and humiliated as a perpetual “in-training professional“?

How long are you willing to temp. work and submit to part time jobs in order to acquire more skills and talents on jobs you don’t care for, and for people they don’t care for you?

Is your path somewhere you’d like to go?

Are you ready to circumvent the countless uncertainties and little setbacks?

What am I doing to develop my leadership skills and talents?

To help others be better persons in control of their potentials?

Seth Godin posted on May 17, 2013

Every day, you invest a little bit of yourself into your work.

One of the biggest choices available to you is where you’ll be making that investment.

That project that you’re working on, or that boss you report to… is it worth it?

Investing in the wrong place for a week or a month won’t kill you.

Spending 10 years contributing to something that you don’t care about, or working with someone who doesn’t care about you

You can do better.

Is Life full of holes?

Every scrutinized historical event fails to hold up to serious inspection.

There’s missing evidence.

How did he get from point A to point B? Where’s the document or the eyewitness or the proof?

Your future opportunities are like this as well.

Even at the hottest part of the 1998 Internet run up, skeptics wanted more proof that the internet wasn’t merely a waste of time. They wanted all the dots connected, and were happy to keep collecting dots until opportunity passed them by.

For a train to get from one city to another, it makes countless tiny leaps, crossing microscopic chasms that would easily show up if you looked closely enough.

That doesn’t keep you from getting there, though.

I don’t think the right question is, “is the path perfect?”

Probably the better question is: “Is this somewhere I’d like to go?”

It’s significantly easier to cross a gap when you have direction and momentum.

Overcoming the impossibility of amazing

If you set your bar at “amazing,” it’s awfully difficult to start.

Your first paragraph, sketch, formula, sample or concept isn’t going to be amazing. Your tenth one might not be either.

Confronted with the gap between your vision of perfect and the reality of what you’ve created, the easiest path is no path.

Shrug. Admit defeat. Hit delete.

One more reason to follow someone else and wait for instructions.

Of course, the only path to amazing runs directly through not-yet-amazing.

But not-yet-amazing is a great place to start, because that’s where you are. For now.

There’s a big difference between not settling and not starting.

Dan Rockwell asks you this simple test:

“What am I doing to develop my leadership?”

Lousy leaders don’t have an answer.

Marshall Goldsmith, named Harvard Business Review number one leadership thinker in the world, said:  “I always learn more from the people I coach than they learn from me“.

And it helps that Marshall only works with top leaders of top organizations in the world.

Grow your leadership by growing others.

Help yourself by helping others. Teachers learn more than students.

The surprising path to the top is helping others to the top.

Unselfishly develop yourself by unselfishly developing others.

Tip: Know less. Even if you think you know, listen and learn.

Tool to help you develop others and yourself: Managers as Mentors,” by Chip Bell and Marshall Goldsmith.

What’s Happening in Istanbul? A delayed Spring upheaval?

So far, in the last 6 days, the mass demonstrations in Turkey are growing larger and more widespread to most cities. The Government has exercised utmost violence to disperse the citizens. Over 2,000 have been detained, over 1,000 injured and 6 died. Two of the sit-in were crushed under the tanks.

And this dictator of Prime Minister, since 1992 in the power seat, is lambasting his citizens as extremists and criminals, like all dictators. The syndicates are joining the demonstrators and the soccer teams too. Erdogan, PM is touring the northern African States of Morocco, Algeria, and Tunisia, and promising to tame the upheaval from afar.

İnsanlik Hali posted on June 1, 2013: (I felt that I need to slightly edit this article)

To my friends who live outside of Turkey:

I am writing to let you know what has been going on in Istanbul in the last 5 days.

I have to write on internet: Most of the media sources are shut down by the government and the word of mouth and the internet are the only ways left for us to explain ourselves and call for help and support.

Four days ago, a group of people who did not belong to any specific organization or ideology got together in Istanbul’s Gezi Park.

Among them there were many of my friends and students.  Their reason was simple: To prevent and protest the upcoming demolishing of the park for the sake of building yet another shopping mall at very center of the city. (This park was the location of an Ottoman fort that was destroyed by the secular revolutionaries in the early century)

There are numerous shopping malls in Istanbul, at least one in every neighborhood! The tearing down of the trees was supposed to begin early Thursday morning. People went to the park with their blankets, books and children. They put their tents down and spent the night under the trees.

Early in the morning, the bulldozers started to pull out the hundred-year-old trees. And the people stood up to stop the operation.

They did nothing other than physically obstructing the machines.

No newspaper, no television channel was there to report the protest. It was a complete media black out.

The police arrived with water cannon vehicles and pepper spray.  They chased the crowds out of the park.

In the evening, the number of protesters multiplied. So did the number of police forces around the park.

Meanwhile, local government of Istanbul shut down all the ways leading up to Taksim square where the Gezi Park is located. The metro was shut down, ferries were cancelled, roads were blocked.

Yet more and more people walked their way up to the center of the city.

They came from all around Istanbul. They came from all different backgrounds, different ideologies, different religions. They all gathered to prevent the demolition of something bigger than the park:

The right to live as honorable citizens of this country.

They gathered and marched. Police chased them with pepper spray and tear gas and drove their tanks over people who offered the police food in return.

Two young people were run over by the tanks and were killed.

Another young woman, a friend of mine, was hit in the head by one of the incoming tear gas canisters. The police were shooting them straight into the crowd.

She has undergone a 3- hour operation and is still in Intensive Care Unit and in  very critical condition. As I write this we don’t know if she is going to make it. This blog is dedicated to her.

These people are my friends. They are my students, my relatives. They have no «hidden agenda» as the state likes to say. Their agenda is out there.

The agenda is very clear. The whole country is being sold to corporations by the government, for the construction of malls, luxury condominiums, freeways, dams and nuclear plants. The government is looking for (and creating when necessary) any excuse to attack Syria against its people’s will.

On top of all that, the government control its people’s personal lives, and this trend has become unbearable as of late.

The state, under its conservative agenda passed many laws and regulations concerning abortion, cesarean birth, sale and use of alcohol and even the color of lipstick worn by the airline stewardesses.

People who are marching to the center of Istanbul are demanding their right to live freely and receive justice, protection and respect from the State.

People are demanding to be involved in the decision-making processes about the city they live in.

What they have received instead is excessive force and enormous amounts of tear gas shot straight into their faces. Three people lost their eyes.

Yet they still march. Hundred of thousands join them. Thousands crossed the Bosporus Bridge on foot to support the people of Taksim.

No newspaper or TV channel were there to report the events. They were busy with broadcasting news about Miss Turkey and “the strangest cat of the world”.

Police kept chasing people and spraying them with pepper spray to an extent that stray dogs and cats were poisoned and died by it.

Schools, hospitals and even 5 star hotels around Taksim Square opened their doors to the injured. Doctors filled the classrooms and hotel rooms to provide first aid. Some police officers refused to spray innocent people with tear gas and quit their jobs.

Around the square the police force placed jammers to prevent internet connection and 3G networks were blocked.

Residents and businesses in the area provided free wireless network for the people on the streets. Restaurants offered food and water for free.

People in Ankara and İzmir gathered on the streets to support the resistance in Istanbul.

Mainstream media kept showing Miss Turkey and “the strangest cat of the world”.


I am writing this letter so that you know what is going on in Istanbul. Mass media will not tell you any of this. Not in my country at least.

Please post as many as articles as you see on the Internet and spread the word.

As I was posting articles on my Facebook page last night someone asked me the following question:

«What are you hoping to gain by complaining about our country to foreigners?»

This blog is my answer to her.

By so called «complaining» about my country I am hoping to gain:

1. Freedom of expression and speech,

2. Respect for human rights,

3. Control over the decisions I make concerning my on my body,

4. The right to legally congregate in any part of the city without being considered a terrorist.

But most of all by spreading the word to you, my friends who live in other parts of the world, I am hoping to get your awareness, support and help!

Please spread the word and share this blog.

Thank you!

For further info and things you can do for help please see Amnesty International’s Call for Urgent Help

Taken from Occupy Gezi Facebook page. Also used by Reuters
Note: View Heartwarming Images from the Turkish Resistance. – Imgur




June 2013

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