What kind of man are you looking for? SELF WORTH
Posted on: July 14, 2015
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What kind of man are you looking for?
Subject: SELF WORTH
In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: ‘What kind of man are you looking for?’
She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking,
‘Do you really want to know?’ Reluctantly, he said, ‘Yes.
She said: ‘As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can’t do for myself?
1. I pay my own bills.
2. I take care of my household without the help of any man or woman for that matter.
3. I am in the position to ask, ‘What can you bring to the table?’
Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, ‘I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.
He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain.
She said, ‘I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don’t need to be unequally yoked
Believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don’t need a financial burden.
I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.
I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships.
Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.
I need a man who is family-oriented.
One who can be the leader,
I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him.
I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business.
I have no problem being submissive…he just has to be worthy.
And by the way, I am not looking for him…He will find me.
He will recognize himself in me.
He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me.
I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself…
When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, ‘You are asking a lot.
She replied, “I’m worth a lot”.
Note: this question is valid the way around “What kind of women are you looking for?” All the above?
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