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What kind of man are you looking for? SELF WORTH

Posted on: July 14, 2015

What kind of man are you looking for?

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Subject: SELF WORTH

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question: ‘What kind of man are you looking for?’

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye and asking,

‘Do you really want to know?’ Reluctantly, he said, ‘Yes.

She said: ‘As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what can you do for me that I can’t do for myself?

1. I pay my own bills.

2. I take care of my household without the help of any man or woman for that matter.

3.  I am in the position to ask, ‘What can you bring to the table?’

Clearly he thought that she was referring to money. She quickly corrected his thought & stated, ‘I am not referring to money. I need something more. I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain.

She said, ‘I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don’t need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don’t need to be unequally yoked

Believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster. I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don’t need a financial burden.

I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.

I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships.

Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man.

I need a man who is family-oriented.

One who can be the leader, 

I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him.

I cannot be submissive to a man who isn’t taking care of his business.

I have no problem being submissive…he just has to be worthy.

And by the way, I am not looking for him…He will find me.

He will recognize himself in me.

He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me.

I can’t help a man if he can’t help himself…

When she finished her spill, she looked at him. He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, ‘You are asking a lot.

She replied, “I’m worth a lot”.

Note: this question is valid the way around “What kind of women are you looking for?” All the above?

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