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Satisfying Sex is reserved for the “perverted” imaginative minds

Satisfying Sex for both partners is Not within the reach of adolescents and below the mid-age people, with rare exceptions.

Both partners cannot simultaneously enjoy full-blown sexual intercourse if they fail to recollect how they behaved during the puberty stage with respect the opposite sex.

It requires powerful imagination to remember how we behaved in puberty, and the gut to admit that what we did was the proper conduct to go about wooing the opposite sex…

The steady patience to find ways to delicately touch a finger, obstructing the body parts so that they come in contact, as by hazard…

No one was fool in puberty, and the game was admitted and encouraged as the right thing to do… to persist, to develop the imaginative power for sending the proper signal, the proper message of our attraction, of our passion… to devote time, and energy, and patience to just feel the body, the only reality that mattered…

In puberty, more often than not, we dared not look the partner face to face: We prefered to dwell on our imaginative mind, the way we wanted the partner to think of us, to get confused of mixed signals…

In puberty, we were not interested in direct questions and direct answers of the kinds “Do you love me“, “How do you feel about me”, “what do you like about me”… Those mentalistic formulas were not a priority

All these questions and answers are reserved to phases when we shovel our imagination under the carpet, and we start lying to ourselves for believing in the sorts of “Affirm yourself“, “Seek direct confirmation”, “Show confidence in yourself“, “Tell her how you feel”, “Do not give up and keep harassing your partner until you get a satisfactory reply”….

Mid-age people learn to prosecute satisfying sex, not from consciously emulation of the puberty period, but by procuration of  accumulated experience that somehow imitate how we behaved in puberty… recapturing the patience and invested time and energy to woo the other partner… slowly and delicately touching, and getting interested in every portion of the body, every piece of flesh representing the entire body in sensation…

Current movies and sitcom try to fool us that this generation of adolescent is far more mature than the previous one: This is pure fiction.

Mature screenwriters and directors are faking to reminisce on how as adolescent they wanted to behave, Not how awkwardly they behaved, as the law of nature dictates, growing up…

Sure the new generation is far more exposed than other generations in all matter of knowledge and reality of life through the endless streams of music audio-visual internet communication means, but this does not automatically translate in actual field of behavior with the other sex…

If adolescents could write

If adolescents dare to write, in any style, in their own slang, their own words…

They’ll inevitably bridge the gap with mature fiction novels, of authors doing their hardest, to recall how it was to feel, empathyze, share with mankind suffering, pain, and struggle to keep humanity healthy and sane… Trying their hardest and barely remembering, skin deep…

This post is supposed to be a draft, pending your stories, replies and comments…

F for Fundamentalist mid-age religious people

You might jump to the conclusion that F is the initial of a curse word. It was not initially meant to: I have in mind a series of newly acquired habits of middle-aged people, like E for Eating, M for Masturbating…

Why is it that middle age people discover, or rediscover God in a more intense fashion, so late in life? You think that they have seen it all, were exposed to all kinds of hypocrisies and swindling, were suckered so many times that they learned the lesson, and religion no longer fits their childhood world model.  A model built on ignorance and terrible lack of background knowledge…

Is God the “social secretary” for the lazier than normal middle age persons? A person who gets very excited and waste hours on “discussing” abstract concepts with the energy of the “know-it-all” kid?

I see them all around me: They never miss a Sunday church, a religious ceremony, a condolence event, the 40-day after for the re-condolence visitations, inviting the priest to come home and sprinkle the “Holy Water” in every nook and cranny in the house, the getting hot angry as I say: “These are all fiction stories. There are no proofs whatsoever to your claim that every single word or sentence in the Book emanate from God or one of his countless prophets and that it should be believed without reflection and knowing the context, the customs of the region…”

Why is it that middle age people discover God so late in life? Have they skipped that phase in childhood? Or religion is such a topic that make life “flow” by and hours vanish in a blink?

Have I mentioned my old dad touching every single icon in the house and crossing his face on his frequent visits to the bathroom, back and forth?

Have I mentioned my old arthritic mom kneeling in front of the TV as mass is being performed?

I contend that mid-age people revert to religion, the fundamental kind of belief, out of sheer laziness. If they were smart enough not to succumb in their childhood to fundamentalism, they grew too busy surviving to take time to reflect on life and death.

As they retire or retire themselves from the hurley burly of life exigencies, mid-age people are forced, with plenty of leisure time, to start questioning the meaning of life big time.

Since they lack the energy and initiative to keep studying, assuming that they barely kept reading and writing during their “active remunerating life”, and that they insist on reading the religious Books in their original version and language, (thus discarding reading other religious Books), the mid-age person is stuck with the Book he is familiar with.  By God, the mid-age person is patriotic, even in his brand of religion.

Out of the newly acquired joy of lazy attitudes and the habit of taking short-cuts, a mid-age person revert to accepting what he reads in the Bibles as not sustaining any sort of interpretations whatsoever.

It is normal that serial killers are found in fundamentalist religious mid-age person: Reading and emulating all these horror and violent fictional stories that Bibles are fraught with…


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