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“Too bad, or Too good to be true?” Orphaned children

Losing a parent in childhood has the potential of driving people into extreme behaviors that “psychologically healthy” kids tend not to cross.

For example, 3 folds the numbers of prisoners have lost a parent before reaching 16 of age.

Illustrious geniuses such as inventors, poets, writers, statesmen… 45% of them had been orphaned .  Keats, Wordsworth, Coleridge, Swift, Gibbon, Thackeray…

Marvin Eisenstadt selected 699 of these illustrious personalities who had credible biographies, and he spent 10 years analyzing these personalities.

Do you know that:

1. Twelve of the 44 US presidents have lost a parent in childhood? Most of them were of the early presidents such as George Washington, Thomas Jefferson, James Monroe, Andrew Jackson, Andrew Johnson… because of low life expectancy in those periods.  Bill Clinton and Barack Obama have been orphaned too.

2. British prime ministers who exclusively came from upper classes, 67% of them lost a parent early on. This is twice the rate of parental loss in the upper classes in those times. A study by Lucille Iremonger.

“it appears that gifted and prodigy children are likely to emerge in highly supportive family conditions. In contrast, geniuses have a perverse tendency of growing up in more adverse conditions

Apparently, courage and consistency in carrying out a project is an acquired attitude, resulting from “remote misses” occurrences that failed to handicap you, physically or mentally. It means that if frequent bombing save you from being a “near miss” casualty, you eventually conquer your fear and start feeling invulnerable, a feeling of exhilaration that death cannot touch you any time soon.

If you had the opportunity of going through  a few tough episodes, you discover that “It’s not that tough after all”

These orphaned kids break “out of the community Frame

The diverse frames we are locked in are shattered when childhood frame ceases to exist.

Note 1: Read Malcolm Gladwell’s “David and Goliath”

Note 2: It would be an excellent idea to study whether separated parents in childhood have the same effect on the kids

Note 3: For every remote miss person who becomes stronger to face the difficulties of life, there are countless near misses who are crushed and remain disabled to function properly as normal people do.

Overthrowing Mubarak was a miracle: Who is Alaa al-Aswany

I had posted a review of Alaa al-Aswany’s book “The Yacoubian Building” that was published in 2002.  The story is a portrayal of modern Egyptian life, told through the characters in a downtown Cairo apartment building, and depict the chaotic and miserable life in Cairo.  The remained the bestselling novel in the Arab world for five years and has been translated into 23 languages and was adapted into a television series and a film.  The following article was borrowed from The Independent, with minor editing:

Alaa al-Aswany is a dentist by profession, and acting as a commentator of the revolutionary, and at times, its instigator. “I’m not a politician.  I would never hold any post whatever [in government]. I am a writer and I will remain a writer. When I go to Tahrir Square, they ask me to make speeches. But most of the time, I prefer just to be with the people.”His book on the overthrow of Mubarak is already selling well “On the State of Egypt: What Made the Revolution Inevitable”

“The biggest mistake of the revolution was that overthrowing Mubarak was too good to be true. Three million people were celebrating. Twenty to thirty thousand, maximum, were saying, ‘We must not leave the square, we must elect representatives of the revolution in every city’. But these people were seen as suspicious, as too aggressive. I know now that they were right.”

“There is an entire department for the security state in Egypt. One of the goals of the revolution was to bring these criminals to justice. Nothing happened. Now we have the State Security working at full power. Drug dealers have infiltrated the square. The thugs then suddenly disappeared when the elections came. You don’t have to be intelligent to know that these thugs are still under instructions. They disappear for elections and now they are returning.”

“The Minister of Justice himself said that 450,000 paid thugs were working for the police in Egypt. Documents were published in Tahrir newspaper which included a letter from a security official to his superior saying that ‘We now have on duty in Cairo 69,000 thugs’ – this is after the revolution. Of course, the Minister of the Interior denied this and said there was no police official with this name.

“The Minister of the Interior said seven times that ‘We don’t have snipers in the Ministry of the Interior.’ Then we discovered there is an official Department of Snipers in the Ministry of the Interior – and that one sniper must always accompany every unit of security troops. So this minister is either lying, or he doesn’t know anything about his ministry.”

The Egyptian press announced that a man nicknamed the “Eye Sniper” – his picture, in uniform, actually appeared on the front pages, identifying him as Lieutenant Mahmoud al-Shinnawi – has handed himself in for questioning by state prosecutors.

An Egyptian human rights group documented 60 cases of protesters with eye injuries and the lieutenant was filmed apparently aiming rubber-coated steel bullets at protesters’ heads. One of Aswany’s fellow dentists, Ahmed Harara, lost an eye in the January-February revolution. Harara lost his other eye in the police attack last month.

“I think there was an agreement between the Muslim Brotherhood [largely the winners in the first round of parliamentary elections] and the army that, after 10 months, crises could be fabricated – that there should be pressure put on the people to come to hate the revolution. But on 19 November, the people went to the street to defend the revolution again.

“The Military Council is trying to find another source of legitimacy. The Council is only there because of the revolution. Mubarak resigned and transmitted his authority to them – which is unconstitutional. It doesn’t make sense. Mubarak was no longer in his post. In the 1971 constitution, there is no mention of a Military Council.

“So now they want to have a base other than the revolution – the elections! They are saying that Tahrir Square no longer represents Egypt. The truth is that we had fair voting – but we didn’t have fair elections.”

A judge allowed former Mubarak National Democratic Party (NDP) members – originally banned from political life – to stand as candidates in this election under different party names. Aswany said “What is this? If I lose my dentist’s licence, would I be able to go and work as a dentist in another hospital? The NDP have been looking into every detail of the revolutionary groups, accusing them of taking money from abroad. But they closed their eyes to the millions of dollars which came from the Gulf to the Salafists and the Brotherhood.”

The Military Council invited Egyptians abroad to vote. The Egyptians in the Gulf went easily through the registration procedure, but in Europe and America the registration was slow. Egyptians in the Gulf are likely to support Islamist parties. “The Council told Egyptians abroad they had the right to vote – but it proved complicated.”

Aswany knows why the people of Egypt went to the polls in such numbers last month.  He said: “The Military Council said that the voters were showing support for them (because they arranged the elections). But no. The people were voting to get rid of the Council and to push the country ahead. The people who voted were not revolutionaries, but they thought: ‘If this is the way for a democracy, then we’re going to do it’. We are talking about a real revolution – but this takes time, to get rid of the old regime and build a new one.”

Note: Alaa al-Aswany is born on May 1957 in Cairo, Egypt and now lives in Cairo with wife and three children. He attended the Lycée Français in Cairo and studied dentistry at Cairo University. Moved to the US in 1985 to study dentistry at the University of Illinois in Chicago.

Alaa al-Aswany novel ‘The Yacoubian Building”was published in 2002.  This year, Aswany released a collection of essays entitled ‘On The State Of Egypt: What Made The Revolution Inevitable’.

Alaa al-Aswany is producing a new novel to be called The Automobile Club of Egypt.  The story will be set in the 1940’s. “At the end of the novel, I had to imagine how it was to be a rebel and to say ‘No’.  And, by coincidence, we had the revolution here!”




January 2023

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